Let’s stop sugarcoating it: Most men are full of shit.
Not because they’re bad.
Not because they’re weak.
But because they’ve been trained, from day one — to lie.
Lie to their women.
Lie to their friends.
Lie to the whole damn world.
But worst of all...
We walk around with fake smiles, fake confidence, fake lives — playing roles we never signed up for.
“Everything’s fine,” we say... while slowly dying inside.
And guess what?
That poison builds up.
You don’t heal when you hide.
You don’t grow by faking it.
It eats you alive. Quietly. Relentlessly.
Then there’s this emotions thing.
Yeah — the word most men cringe at.
Nobody taught you how to deal with them.
So they get buried. Trapped. Ignored.
And where do they go?
Right into your tight jaw, your shallow breath, your slumped posture, and that dull, frustrated ache that never goes away.
You’re carrying around emotional landmines — and pretending it’s normal.
And if that wasn’t enough...
“Masculinity is toxic.”
“No, wait, masculinity is soft and sensitive.”
“Actually, just be whatever the culture tells you to be this week.”
It’s a mess.
No wonder you’re confused.
You’ve been castrated by opinions and raised on fear.
And here’s the real kicker...
Because when you live a life of lies...
When your emotions are locked down...
And your mind’s been hijacked by stories that aren’t yours...
How the hell are you supposed to hear your soul speak?
So what happens?
You chase the wrong business, the wrong woman, the wrong mission —
Then you wonder why you feel hollow even when you “succeed.”
That’s the problem with men today.
The fact is, most men won’t go there.
It's too risky.
Too exposed.
Too real.
But, for...
The man who drops the act, owns his mess, and tells the whole truth, something incredible happens:
Healing.
Freedom.
Power.
Not some fluffy, New Age BS... but the kind of raw, soul-level healing that only comes when you stop lying to yourself and finally face what’s been running the show from the shadows.
And that can only happen if you're also willing to be...
Yes — we've got to unlock the emotions too.
Not to get soft, but to grow stronger.
Because those feelings you’re afraid to feel....
That anger, sadness, shame, grief... they’re not weaknesses.
They’re fuel.
Your body knows.
It’s been screaming at you for years.
Tight jaw.
Armored heart.
Shallow breath.
It’s not random, it's a message.
Rage with no release.
And once you learn how to feel it, name it, move it — you unlock a fire that makes you dangerous in the best way possible.
Then comes the reframe, for...
You’re not stuck with the story you were handed.
Not your parents’s story.
Not society’s script.
Not the media’s cartoon version of what a “real man” is.
You get to burn all that garbage and write your own myth.
Because the pen is in your hand now.
You’re not here to repeat history... you’re here to break cycles and build something better.
And when the lies are gone, the feelings are clear, and the story is finally yours...
Clarity shows up, and you become...
You’ll finally know what you want.
Not what other people expect from you — what you actually desire.
And once that vision locks in, everything starts lining up:
Your body, your spirit, your woman, your mission.
You’re no longer drifting through life as a nice guy with a tight chest and a fake smile...
You’re moving like a New Man.
Rooted.
Activated.
On purpose.
This isn’t a workshop.
It’s a masculine initiation
You’ll tell the truth — no masks, no filters, no pretending.
You’ll feel what you’ve buried — the anger, the grief, the weight you’ve carried alone.
You’ll break the old stories that have kept you weak and step into the man you were meant to be.
This isn’t about talking it out — it’s about burning through the bullshit and earning your clarity through fire, breath, brotherhood, and raw truth.
You don’t leave this retreat with notes.
You leave with power!
Let’s stop sugarcoating it: Most men are full of shit.
Not because they’re bad.
Not because they’re weak.
But because they’ve been trained, from day one — to lie.
Lie to their women.
Lie to their friends.
Lie to the whole damn world.
But worst of all...
We walk around with fake smiles, fake confidence, fake lives — playing roles we never signed up for.
“Everything’s fine,” we say... while slowly dying inside.
And guess what?
That poison builds up.
You don’t heal when you hide.
You don’t grow by faking it.
It eats you alive. Quietly. Relentlessly.
Then there’s this emotions thing.
Yeah — the word most men cringe at.
Nobody taught you how to deal with them.
So they get buried. Trapped. Ignored.
And where do they go?
Right into your tight jaw, your shallow breath, your slumped posture, and that dull, frustrated ache that never goes away.
You’re carrying around emotional landmines — and pretending it’s normal.
And if that wasn’t enough...
“Masculinity is toxic.”
“No, wait, masculinity is soft and sensitive.”
“Actually, just be whatever the culture tells you to be this week.”
It’s a mess.
No wonder you’re confused.
You’ve been castrated by opinions and raised on fear.
And here’s the real kicker...
Because when you live a life of lies...
When your emotions are locked down...
And your mind’s been hijacked by stories that aren’t yours...
How the hell are you supposed to hear your soul speak?
So what happens?
You chase the wrong business, the wrong woman, the wrong mission —
Then you wonder why you feel hollow even when you “succeed.”
That’s the problem with men today.
The fact is, most men won’t go there.
It's too risky.
Too exposed.
Too real.
But, for...
The man who drops the act, owns his mess, and tells the whole truth, something incredible happens:
Healing.
Freedom.
Power.
Not some fluffy, New Age BS... but the kind of raw, soul-level healing that only comes when you stop lying to yourself and finally face what’s been running the show from the shadows.
And that can only happen if you're also willing to be...
Yes — we've got to unlock the emotions too.
Not to get soft, but to grow stronger.
Because those feelings you’re afraid to feel....
That anger, sadness, shame, grief... they’re not weaknesses.
They’re fuel.
Your body knows.
It’s been screaming at you for years.
Tight jaw.
Armored heart.
Shallow breath.
It’s not random, it's a message.
Rage with no release.
And once you learn how to feel it, name it, move it — you unlock a fire that makes you dangerous in the best way possible.
Then comes the reframe, for...
You’re not stuck with the story you were handed.
Not your parents’s story.
Not society’s script.
Not the media’s cartoon version of what a “real man” is.
You get to burn all that garbage and write your own myth.
Because the pen is in your hand now.
You’re not here to repeat history... you’re here to break cycles and build something better.
And when the lies are gone, the feelings are clear, and the story is finally yours...
Clarity shows up, and you become...
You’ll finally know what you want.
Not what other people expect from you — what you actually desire.
And once that vision locks in, everything starts lining up:
Your body, your spirit, your woman, your mission.
You’re no longer drifting through life as a nice guy with a tight chest and a fake smile...
You’re moving like a New Man.
Rooted.
Activated.
On purpose.
This isn’t a workshop.
It’s a masculine initiation
You’ll tell the truth — no masks, no filters, no pretending.
You’ll feel what you’ve buried — the anger, the grief, the weight you’ve carried alone.
You’ll break the old stories that have kept you weak and step into the man you were meant to be.
This isn’t about talking it out — it’s about burning through the bullshit and earning your clarity through fire, breath, brotherhood, and raw truth.
You don’t leave this retreat with notes.
You leave with power!
The Circle of Truth is where all masks come off. No hiding, no lying, no pretending. This is where men speak what’s real — not to impress, but to express.
At the Grounding Camp, you’ll join healing circles and prayer circles where truth is spoken and heard.
This isn’t Elliott preaching — it’s every man showing up 100%, sharing his story, and being sharpened by the honesty of his brothers.
That’s how we rise — together.
Your body holds your truth — and bioenergetics helps you release it.
Most men have never been taught how to feel or express emotion, so it stays trapped as tension, frustration, or depression.
Through deep breathing, cathartic movement, and active meditations, we unlock stuck energy and reconnect to the fire inside.
When emotions move, power returns — and clarity follows.
The Rite of Passage is where you confront your edge and move beyond it.
Most men today are soft not because they lack strength, but because they’ve never been tested.
This isn’t about ego or competition — it’s about breaking through your own internal resistance.
It’s a sacred physical challenge that pushes you past your fears, doubts, and excuses so you can reclaim your courage and authority.
When your body is clear and your heart is open, God speaks.
Revelation is the moment you remember who you are and why you’re here.
At Grounding Camp, you’ll be called to listen deeply and speak boldly — to name the truth you’re hearing right now.
You won’t leave guessing. You’ll leave knowing.
Because the answers have been in you all along.
The Circle of Truth is where all masks come off. No hiding, no lying, no pretending. This is where men speak what’s real — not to impress, but to express.
At the Grounding Camp, you’ll join healing circles and prayer circles where truth is spoken and heard.
This isn’t Elliott preaching — it’s every man showing up 100%, sharing his story, and being sharpened by the honesty of his brothers.
That’s how we rise — together.
Your body holds your truth — and bioenergetics helps you release it.
Most men have never been taught how to feel or express emotion, so it stays trapped as tension, frustration, or depression.
Through deep breathing, cathartic movement, and active meditations, we unlock stuck energy and reconnect to the fire inside.
When emotions move, power returns — and clarity follows.
The Rite of Passage is where you confront your edge and move beyond it.
Most men today are soft not because they lack strength, but because they’ve never been tested.
This isn’t about ego or competition — it’s about breaking through your own internal resistance.
It’s a sacred physical challenge that pushes you past your fears, doubts, and excuses so you can reclaim your courage and authority.
When your body is clear and your heart is open, God speaks.
Revelation is the moment you remember who you are and why you’re here.
At Grounding Camp, you’ll be called to listen deeply and speak boldly — to name the truth you’re hearing right now.
You won’t leave guessing. You’ll leave knowing.
Because the answers have been in you all along.
The Facts: This is a one day, in person masculine initiation. We start Saturday morning, 12 July. Registration opens at 8:00 AM sharp. The program kicks off at 9:00 and we go deep until 5:00 PM.
It’s all happening at a private retreat in Amsterdam — easy to reach whether you're coming from Germany, Sweden, the UK, or anywhere across Europe. You’ll spend the full day in training, brotherhood, and initiation — no distractions, no half-measures.
You’ll need to bring or buy your own food (there are plenty of nearby options), and there are hotels and Airbnbs close by if you’re planning to stay overnight.
Once you register, we’ll send you all the final details.
Just know this: We keep it simple, sacred, and strong.
How To Know This Is For You: This isn’t something you choose with your mind — it’s something you feel in your gut.
If you’ve made it this far down the page, it’s likely because something inside you is stirring. That’s not an accident. That’s the call. Only you can say yes to it. Not your ego, not your schedule, not your wallet — you.
If this retreat is meant for you, trust that God will open the door and make a way. But you’ve got to listen to that still, small voice and follow where it leads.
What It Will Be Like: Imagine standing in a circle with dozens other powerful, purpose-driven men — men who are done pretending, done hiding, and ready to rise.
You’ll walk the land with me and be greeted by my team as if you were already part of the pack. You’ll breathe deeply, speak boldly, and drop deeper into your truth than you ever have before.
For some of you, this will be a once-in-a-lifetime chance to train face-to-face with a mentor you’ve followed for years. For all of you, it will be a legendary weekend of connection, challenge, and brotherhood you’ll never forget.
What You'll Walk Away With: You won’t leave this retreat the same man who arrived. You’ll walk away grounded, clear, and activated — in your body, in your spirit, in your relationships, and in your calling.
Your breath will be deeper. Your posture stronger. Your voice more certain. You’ll be in alignment with who you really are and what you really want. And from that alignment, your business will grow, your family will feel your presence, and the world will receive the gift that only you can give.
This isn’t just a retreat — it’s a rebirth.
The Facts: This is a one day, in person masculine initiation. We start Saturday morning, 12 July. Registration opens at 8:00 AM sharp. The program kicks off at 9:00 and we go deep until 5:00 PM.
It’s all happening at a private retreat center in Amsterdam — easy to reach whether you're coming from Germany, Sweden, the UK, or anywhere across Europe. You’ll spend the full day in training, brotherhood, and initiation — no distractions, no half-measures.
You’ll need to bring or buy your own food (there are plenty of nearby options), and there are hotels and Airbnbs close by if you’re planning to stay overnight.
Once you register, we’ll send you all the final details.
Just know this: We keep it simple, sacred, and strong.
How To Know This Is For You: This isn’t something you choose with your mind — it’s something you feel in your gut.
If you’ve made it this far down the page, it’s likely because something inside you is stirring. That’s not an accident. That’s the call. Only you can say yes to it. Not your ego, not your schedule, not your wallet — you.
If this retreat is meant for you, trust that God will open the door and make a way. But you’ve got to listen to that still, small voice and follow where it leads.
What It Will Be Like: Imagine standing in a circle with dozens other powerful, purpose-driven men — men who are done pretending, done hiding, and ready to rise.
You’ll walk the land with me and be greeted by my team as if you were already part of the pack. You’ll breathe deeply, speak boldly, and drop deeper into your truth than you ever have before.
For some of you, this will be a once-in-a-lifetime chance to train face-to-face with a mentor you’ve followed for years. For all of you, it will be a legendary weekend of connection, challenge, and brotherhood you’ll never forget.
What You'll Walk Away With: You won’t leave this retreat the same man who arrived. You’ll walk away grounded, clear, and activated — in your body, in your spirit, in your relationships, and in your calling.
Your breath will be deeper. Your posture stronger. Your voice more certain. You’ll be in alignment with who you really are and what you really want. And from that alignment, your business will grow, your family will feel your presence, and the world will receive the gift that only you can give.
This isn’t just a retreat — it’s a rebirth.
You should fly into Amsterdam Airport Schiphol. It's about a 20 minute drive from the airport.
No. You will need to find transportation from the airport to The Retreat site. Some guys Rent a Car, getting Uber, or carpool with the other men they will connect with in the WhatsApp group.
You should arrive at 8:00 a.m. For registration. The event starts promptly at 9:00 a.m. We end at 5pm
Food will not be provided at this event. You're encouraged to bring your own meals to eat during our lunch break. There may be options to buy food at the retreat location.
Bring several changes of clothes as we'll probably be sweating a lot and getting wet. Bring a notebook and some pens for journaling. Sneakers, sandals, comfortable Footwear. Hats and sunglasses to protect you from the Sun. Refillable water bottles. Snacks and whatever else you need to stay comfortable.
Elliott will be present and available for the entire retreat, but he cannot promise you one-on-one time, although it is possible. If you'd like to guarantee one-on-one time with Elliot you should join the VIP Council Day before the main event or hire him for a bioenergetics or guidance session on the days before the event. Email [email protected] for arrangements.
There will be an opportunity to take pictures with Elliot at the end of The Retreat. We kindly ask that you refrain from filming and taking pictures during the retreat, especially if it involves other people who do not have your permission.
Some of the retreat will be recorded and there will be photos taken. Upon registration you will sign out waiver that gives Elliot permission to use these videos and pictures in his marketing material. You will also get a Dropbox folder with all of the photos for your private use. If you would prefer not to have your likeness in a public video or photo please speak with Elliott privately during the event and we'll try our best to hide you from the camera.
The main event is limited to 100 participants. I cannot guarantee how many men will be there. If you'd like a more intimate experience with Elliott, you should join the VIP Council Day before, which is limited to 12 participants.
We have a strict no refund or cancellation policy due to limited tickets. Though you can purchase event protection insurance upon check out and a third party will refund your money.
If the retreat gets postponed due to unforeseen issues you will be given prior notice and we will either refund all tickets or collectively agree on another date.
Yes. This Retreat is physically demanding and you will be exercising and moving a lot. If you were in poor shape you should take that into consideration. You also have the option to sit out any activity you do not feel comfortable participating in.
You do not need to be religious to attend this event, though you must be tolerant of Elliott's Catholic faith and that of the other men. Elliott will be talking about God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit, he may even invite you to attend mass on Sunday morning, which is totally optional.
Although there isn't a minimum age required to attend most men who attend are between the ages of 24 and 49 years old.
Yes. You are encouraged to bring your own snacks, supplements or any personal items to make you comfortable during the event.
Yes. You can access your phone during the event, this is not a tech-free experience. Though you might want to limit your screen time in order to remain fully present for the experience.
Upon registration you will be invited to a private WhatsApp group with the other retreat participants where you can continue your fellowship and Community Building. There is no official ongoing support, but you may be selected to join Elliott's private counsel during the event or you can choose to hire Elliott for a private session anytime after the event including the days immediately following.
STILL GOT QUESTIONS? E-MAIL: [email protected]
You should fly into Amsterdam Airport Schiphol. It's about a 20 minute drive from the airport.
No. You will need to find transportation from the airport to The Retreat site. Some guys Rent a Car, getting Uber, or carpool with the other men they will connect with in the WhatsApp group.
You should arrive at 8:00 a.m. For registration. The event starts promptly at 9:00 a.m. We end at 5pm
Food will not be provided at this event. You're encouraged to bring your own meals to eat during our lunch break. There may be options to buy food at the retreat location.
Bring several changes of clothes as we'll probably be sweating a lot and getting wet. Bring a notebook and some pens for journaling. Sneakers, sandals, comfortable Footwear. Hats and sunglasses to protect you from the Sun. Refillable water bottles. Snacks and whatever else you need to stay comfortable.
Elliott will be present and available for the entire retreat, but he cannot promise you one-on-one time, although it is possible. If you'd like to guarantee one-on-one time with Elliot you should join the VIP Council Day before the main event or hire him for a bioenergetics or guidance session on the days before the event. Email [email protected] for arrangements.
There will be an opportunity to take pictures with Elliot at the end of The Retreat. We kindly ask that you refrain from filming and taking pictures during the retreat, especially if it involves other people who do not have your permission.
Some of the retreat will be recorded and there will be photos taken. Upon registration you will sign out waiver that gives Elliot permission to use these videos and pictures in his marketing material. You will also get a Dropbox folder with all of the photos for your private use. If you would prefer not to have your likeness in a public video or photo please speak with Elliott privately during the event and we'll try our best to hide you from the camera.
The main event is limited to 100 participants. I cannot guarantee how many men will be there. If you'd like a more intimate experience with Elliott, you should join the VIP Council Day before, which is limited to 12 participants.
We have a strict no refund or cancellation policy due to limited tickets. Though you can purchase event protection insurance upon check out and a third party will refund your money.
If the retreat gets postponed due to unforeseen issues you will be given prior notice and we will either refund all tickets or collectively agree on another date.
Yes. This Retreat is physically demanding and you will be exercising and moving a lot. If you were in poor shape you should take that into consideration. You also have the option to sit out any activity you do not feel comfortable participating in.
You do not need to be religious to attend this event, though you must be tolerant of Elliott's Catholic faith and that of the other men. Elliott will be talking about God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit, he may even invite you to attend mass on Sunday morning, which is totally optional.
Although there isn't a minimum age required to attend most men who attend are between the ages of 24 and 49 years old.
Yes. You are encouraged to bring your own snacks, supplements or any personal items to make you comfortable during the event.
Yes. You can access your phone during the event, this is not a tech-free experience. Though you might want to limit your screen time in order to remain fully present for the experience.
Upon registration you will be invited to a private WhatsApp group with the other retreat participants where you can continue your fellowship and Community Building. There is no official ongoing support, but you may be selected to join Elliott's private counsel during the event or you can choose to hire Elliott for a private session anytime after the event including the days immediately following.
STILL GOT QUESTIONS? E-MAIL: [email protected]